Debra Webster


I help people struggle with identity, feel afraid, have poor boundaries and feel defective or less than others get free of these prisons so they can have joy in life. This ministry is like a floodlight in the darkness.

God, in His great wisdom, allowed me to go through seventeen years of wounding after making Jesus Lord and then twenty-three years in the tomb. So, forty-one years was my School of the Spirit.

After the wounding, did I have questions? You bet I did. Because it was obvious I had it wrong. Here are a few of my questions...

"Who are you, God? Why did you do what you did? What is the purpose of suffering?"

"How do I overcome fear? What can I do about shame? How can I know you intimately?"

"Why did you allow what our family endured?"

After much Bible study and writing five books, I had answers and joy to share. As a result, one thing I learned from my journey is that shame and fear have plagued humans since the Garden of Eden. They keep the bride from being ready for the Bridegroom.

I am free and God wants you to become free, too. And He answers the questions about knowing Him intimately.

Get real help that will improve your business and personal life. Improve your emotional intelligence. Journey with me out of trauma, shame, fear, immature ways of relating and poor boundaries into joy.

Here are the reasons you can depend on Debra Webster to help you get free from fear, poor boundaries, and feeling defective as well as increase your emotional intelligence so you can have joy in life:

  • REPUTABLE – Debra Webster has been a speaker, teacher and coach for decades, a respected leader in her field and community.
  • EXPERIENCED – Our proudest accomplishment is the large number of long term clients who put their trust in us year after year.
  • INTEGRITY  Building a reputation of integrity takes years, but it takes only a second to lose. We don’t believe in cutting corners. The foundation of our reputation is our commitment to do the right thing at all times, regardless of whether anyone is watching.
  • RESOURCES  We offer a wide variety of development and training programs built on timeless principles that get results.
  • CUSTOMIZABLE  All of our curriculum can be customized to specifically address your individual and organizational needs.
  • 100% SATISFACTION GUARANTEE – We want you to be completely satisfied with our services. We will do whatever it takes to make you happy. No hassles, no problems.

Download Your FREE GIFT Now!


This eBook is one of Debra Webster's most popular publications available as a free download. Inside of this eBook, you will learn:

  • How to Kick Shame and Welcome Confidence
  • How to Overcome Family Slavery
  • How to Conquer Past Shame, Pain and Confusion
  • How to Crush Fear's Power
  • How to Stop False Beliefs and Useless Behaviors


Julie Moody

Before working with Coach Debra, I was struggling with shame, but did not know it.

Something Debra said about shame let God put a finger on an incident from my past. I am now free from a level of pain I did not know influenced me.

Thank you Debra for sharing your victories to give me hope.

Patty Magnuson

Before I met Coach Debra, I was hiding from life and let others take the lead in almost everything. Debra helped me work through why I was hiding and how to become more confident. Her grasp of how poor boundaries, choices, fear, and shame keep us from God's best is amazing. Today I am a different person than when I met her. Her grasp of scripture has been a big help to me. If you want a changed life, work with Debra.

Tired of the Hamster Wheel?


Driven People

Are you driven? Perhaps driven to succeed because of perfectionism. Or is there something deeper? Something that causes you to be driven and perfection motivated. Are you someone who can go from 0 to 60 in 3 seconds? Do you experience a lot of emergencies?

Passive People

Are you aware that the passive person and the driven person live with the same problem? Both wonder why they are the way they are and both have the same root problem causing their choices.


Forgiveness and Hearing God’s Voice

You may wonder, what do forgiveness and hearing God’s voice have to do with one another? One thing you may have noticed is that God speaks to us to train His people and bring freedom and life change. Many believe they cannot hear or are unworthy to hear His voice. Yet, He calls us to life change, to become like Him.




 But we all with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord’s glory are being transformed into His glory with increasing likeness.” 2Cor. 3:18


Hear the Call

Come to the Bridegroom with an unveiled face. He desires you, to be known by you and fellowship with you. He sets you free from sin, shame and fear and transforms you with His glory. Trust Him, be vulnerable with Him and fulfill your destiny.

How can you be ready for the Bridegroom? Do you know Him as you desire? You can. Join the quest to know God intimately.

​This website’s purpose is to help you get free from the past so you can